The Duct Tape ProjectSurvivor, Husband of Survivor
"I’m not only a survivor, but I am a fighter. It takes a special kind of man to partner up with me and I found him. I thank God every day for putting Lee in my life. He is gentle and kind and loves me with all his heart."

The Duct Tape Project
Survivor, Husband of Survivor

"I’m not only a survivor, but I am a fighter. It takes a special kind of man to partner up with me and I found him. I thank God every day for putting Lee in my life. He is gentle and kind and loves me with all his heart."


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The Duct Tape ProjectSurvivor"It gets easier to deal with as time goes on, but you can’t do it alone." 

The Duct Tape Project
Survivor

"It gets easier to deal with as time goes on, but you can’t do it alone." 


The Duct Tape Project"Survivor"
Assaulted 3 times by the same woman."I DID NOT ask for it, and neither did you.I promise you, survivors, there is hope. You can find a healthy relationship afterwards. Don’t be afraid to talk to someone. You will not be seen as weak.”
Thank you for your submission! <3 

The Duct Tape Project
"Survivor"

Assaulted 3 times by the same woman.
"I DID NOT ask for it, and neither did you.
I promise you, survivors, there is hope. You can find a healthy relationship afterwards. 
Don’t be afraid to talk to someone. You will not be seen as weak.”

Thank you for your submission! <3
 


Q
I am a guy and was sexualy assaulted by my older sister and a baby sitter. Growing up it caused me to do the same but not as harsh nor as much to others I baby sat for. I am ashamed of this and asked God to forgive me and those who harmed me. I experimented with homosexuality for a while but now I am straight married and have children. God is good!
Anonymous
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I am so sorry that you had to go through that. And knowing that you hurt others must have been very hard. I’m glad that you were able to turn your life into a positive one through your faith. This is a very controversial issue, and I commend you for sharing your story. 


Q
i want to confirm to everyone that i was once raped by my sister, but i forgave her.
Anonymous
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I’m sorry to hear that. I admire you for being able to forgive her though. That’s really difficult to do. I don’t think that the majority of Survivors are able to do that <3


Q
Why is it that people think male children can be raped and assaulted but once they're adults people think they can't? That makes no sense. Once you hit 18 there isn't some sort of biological shield that prevents it.
Anonymous
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That is SO true. Unfortunately, that’s the fault of rape culture. If you’re assaulted as an adult male, a lot of the time it’s flipped around and the guy is thought of as a stud if it was a girl. Like the women can’t keep their hands off of him. Or they are thought of as weak or gay if it was a guy. And of course there is everything in between. 

You are absolutely right. With more education and awareness, hopefully we can whittle away at this ignorance.


Q
Goodnight! :)
Anonymous
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Goodnight, Anonymous! =)


Survivor

theseptictank:

…He was friendly at first but then he started asking where i lived exactly. Then I suddenly noticed he was holding a beer bottle and started to be violent. I was 15. I didn’t know what to do.